Your sex partners don't determine your sexual orientation.'ġ0. Honestly, sex with straight guys was fun and exciting. In the end, they're still straight, and I'm still gay and happily married to my husband of 12 years. I was open, honest, safe, and respectful of my partners. I'm gay, but I hooked up with a handful of men and women in my 30s. I saw him a year later, and his girlfriend joked to me, 'So, you're the one who gave my boyfriend the best head of his life? Thanks for that.' Then I joked, 'I could always teach you.' It was hilarious.' Two of his buddies were like, 'How do you know him?' He answered, 'We hooked up a few weeks ago.' His buddies got all homophobic on him, so he asked, 'You guys have never messed around with another guy?' They both got really quiet. I ran into him two weeks later at a bar, and he was just as nice. 'When I was in my 30s, I hooked up with this straight lumberjack-type guy.